Coping After the Funeral
Losing someone you love is one of life’s hardest experiences. In grief, it’s normal to feel many emotions—from sadness and confusion to even anger. These responses are a natural part of the healing journey.
Although there is no “right” or “wrong” way to grieve, there are healthy ways to cope and find support as you navigate this difficult time.
Helpful Grief Resources
There are many books and resources available to help you understand and process grief. We recommend:
These books provide insightful guidance on how to cope with loss and begin the healing process.
These organizations offer guidance, counselling, and community support to help you through your journey.
The Six Needs of Mourning
According to grief counsellor Dr. Alan Wolfelt, healing from loss involves addressing six fundamental needs:
1.
Acknowledge the reality of the death
Coming to terms with the loss is an essential step in healing.
2.
Embrace the pain of the loss
Allow yourself to feel and express emotions instead of suppressing them.
3.
Remember the person who died
Sharing memories helps keep your loved one’s legacy alive.
4.
Develop a new self-identity
Adjusting to life without your loved one takes time, but it is part of the process.
5.
Search for meaning
Understanding the impact of the loss can help bring peace and purpose.
6.
Receive support from others
Seeking support from family, friends, and professionals is key to emotional healing.